Assalamualaikum...
Rasanya dah agak lama tak berceloteh di blog ni...mungkin akhir-akhir ni agak sibuk. Selepas buat sedikit notes untuk exam ICT next week, terasa cam malas sekejap nak tengok buku. padahal baru baca sedikit je.hehe...jadi, untuk mengisi masa, saya pun belek-belek la facebook. memandangkan hati pun semacam tidak begitu tenang, saya pun terus click kat page 'i'm not alone, Allah is always there with me". dan fan page ni membawa saya melawat satu lama blog dengan entri kenapa perempuan suka menangis tanpa sebab. erm...saya pun tefikir jugak sebab saya pun perempuan. Memang betul. Mudah sanagt air mata ni menitis. Kadang-kadang, tak ada sebab pun, mesti menangis. Dan kadan-kadang, gembira pun boleh membuatkan perempuan menangis. Tapi sebenarnya, ada keistimewaan perempuan yang Allah bagi hanya untuk perempuan yang membolehkan perempuan terlalu mudah menitiskan air mata. Jom baca entri ni sepenuhnya...
“Because I need to” she said.
“I don’t understand,” he said.
His mother just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”
Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?”
“All women cry for no reason,” his dad answered carelessly.
The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). “He surely knows the answer”, he thought.
“Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?”
The Shaikh answered:
“When Allah made the woman she had to be special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
He gave an inner strength to endure both childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
He gave her a toughness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her badly.
He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers.
You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.”
Sepanjang membaca entri ni, dalam minda saya hanya tergambar seorang sahaja...mak saya...bagi saya, mak saya adalah antara wanita tertabah. tak pernah pun saya tengok atau dengar die mengeluh bosan atau letik menjaga seorang suami dan 12 orang anak. bayangkan?13 orang untuk dijaga dan diurusi pada masa yang sama. begitu besar pengorbanan seorang ibu...
bila terkenang pengorbanan mak saya, saya suka memuhasabah diri, bolehkah nanti saya menjaga anak saya walau seorang? bolehkah saya bersabar dengan kerenah suami dan anak-anak????
Semoga masa yang saya ada ni sebelum berumah tangga, saya gunakan sebaiknya untuk mendidik diri dan jiwa menjadi paling tidak setabah ibu saya jika tidak mampu setabah isteri kesayangan Rasulullah s.a.w. Siti Khadijah r.a.
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